He Is Not The Problem, You Might Be

He Is Not the Problem; You Might Be

Why Modern Dating Leaves You Disappointed — And How to Attract a Masculine Man by Reclaiming Your Feminine Power

Modern dating promised freedom, fun, and endless options. Instead, it’s left women exhausted, frustrated, and wondering: Where are all the real men?

Swipe culture, hookup “situationships,” and feminist myths have convinced women that they need to lead, chase, and control to find love. But the truth is simple — those strategies are pushing away the very kind of man they actually want: masculine, loyal, and ready to commit.

This bold, eye-opening book challenges the modern dating lies holding women back and reveals the real secret to love:
✅ Stop competing with men and start inspiring them
✅ Shift from control and overthinking to feminine confidence and energy
✅ Create attraction without games, manipulation, or endless effort
✅ Inspire commitment from masculine men who lead, protect, and love deeply

Written with honesty, humour, and a little tough love, Onya Marks doesn’t sugarcoat the hard truths. Instead, she gives women the practical mindset shifts and tools they need to break free from modern dating disappointment, finally, and step into relationships where they feel cherished, secure, and truly feminine.

If you’re tired of swipes that go nowhere, dates that feel like job interviews, and men who never step up — this book will be your wake-up call. Because maybe he isn’t the problem. Perhaps the power to attract real love has been in you all along.